Has this happened to you?

[sassycat4him]

Let us know how your hand is...

And, if your hubby is only slightly interested like mine is and prone to dangerous situations without regards to your safety.... especially if things of this nature has happened before, perhaps it is time to remove that sort of play until you are certain he has it in control. There are other types of play that aren't "AS" dangerous (although most of it is dangerous in and of itself) that will help to better ensure your safety is in your hands....

Just a few words of caution since I don't know your situation... But, I finally had to remove spanking (remove as in refuse to participate and not allow myself put into a position where I couldn't refuse) due to hubby having lousy aim and not wanting to listen or learn the best "strike" zones.....

ty for the advice and I have removed it all b/c he doesn't listen. I've had the spanking problem too. bad aim. would hit directly on my bud or hit my clit and dayum that's a painful mother fucker!

[jeanne]

I've learned from my own personal experience - if he's not interested enough to learn how to do it right and safely, then he's not dominant. Because if he were, his dominant pride and desire to dominate you would drive him to seek out knowledge.

I'm in that boat too - very little playing with my beloved husband. Thank God the vanilla sex is good!

[annie]

I've learned from my own personal experience - if he's not interested enough to learn how to do it right and safely, then he's not dominant. Because if he were, his dominant pride and desire to dominate you would drive him to seek out knowledge.

I'm in that boat too - very little playing with my beloved husband. Thank God the vanilla sex is good!

Basically yes.... just took me a while to realize that and was hoping to save someone else the extended "painful" hoping... lol