Hi there. I am a fairly new Mistress and have just started a sub/dom relationship with someone online. The problem is, well I am new and I guess I need more information on what I can do or need to do with my sub. I have already set the basic rules of not touching himself without permission and not cumming without permission. But, is there anything anyone can suggest to spice things up. Tasks I can give him while he is online or to do when I am not around. Is there anything in particular that any of you have used or that your subs like. Any suggestions would be great.

As well, my sub has been naughty and has broken my rules twice now. Any suggestions on punishment and how to stand firm to him when he tries to talk his way out of punishment. God, I feel like such a newbie, which I admit I am, but, hey everyone has to start somewhere.

I hope all you mistresses out there will give me some ideas. I have read all the information here about being a Domme and how to treat your sub and I haev that pretty much down I think. This site is great. Hope to hear from you all soon

Kaena