Today's Post

A pleasure spanking is one that is not forgotten quickly by the submissive.

First a pleasure spanking can be done in many positions and I suppose with many variations of pleasure being applied. I love this form of pain / pleasure mixture as a way to ease a new submissive into understanding how the endorphin rush converts what normally is sensed as pain into intense pleasure. I personally insist on the submissive/slave wearing cuffs, this allows you to choose different levels of bondage for the submissive/slave to fit the Dominant’s mood and style.

Now you come to selecting what the Dominate will sit on, remember the best spankings are done over the knee and with the pleasure spanking I believe that you need that kind of physical contact with your submissive/slave. In my opinion the best spankings are done on a high stool so that the submissive/slave’s legs either dangle of just touch the floor. The truth though is that any way the submissive is over your knee will work from chair to bed.

My way of doing this is simple I place myself in a seated position with my left arm lying across my lap. I then place the submissive/slave over my knee so that my left hand is touching her clit and pussy my elbow is touching her breast. The Dominate may choose to have her tied or chained into position or left free. Funny thing is that I prefer her to be free because going over my knee willingly is one of the best signs of submission.

The newer the submissive/slave is to the life the more warm up time I spend with right hand massaging the checks as the left hand teases the clit and pussy. When the submissive/slave is beginning to get into it I start the first spank. Once again the more experienced submissive/slave is the less time is needed to get her aroused. I have had submissive/slaves that got excited over the spanks so that we started with them and then added the clit, pussy teasing. No matter where you are in this progression the arousal factor will add to this experience for you both.

Some variations on this are with plugs and/or vibrators inserted and running. Another is my favorite taking breaks while spanking to use the right hand to tease her anus this can be done with or without actual entry of a finger. I have to tell you that once her ass is glowing red I love to insert a finger lubed with her own juices.

No matter how you play this out when she is cumming I smack harder to cement the relationship of the intense pleasure with the spank. If she begins to climax with your finger in her remove it so that she gets the benefit of the spank as she climaxes.

Also remember that during the spanking and anal play the right hand should be massaging her checks. This varying of sensations does much to blur the distinction of pain and pleasure. Also it extends the time the spanking takes.

Last thing on this subject is that there is no limit to the number of climaxes she can have this way. I use this as a form of reward and not for punishment. Don’t be surprised when she asks for that type of spanking. Also I insist on her only cumming with my permission allowing and teaching her the fine art of begging.