I did a basic intro in the "Introductions/Welcome" section, here's a more detailed one:
I'm a 46 year old submissive male, married to a wonderful & very dominant woman. I have nearly 30 years experience in BDSM, always as a sub, (with the exception of one time in play with my first wife, at her request, not satisfying to either of us, to say the least), & am always learning, reading & researching to learn more about myself, who & what I am, & why. I have no problems being submissive, I just crave a greater understanding of self.
I am always willing to answer questions, offer help or advice, & do whatever else I can to help others along this journey.
While I am a male sub, I am NOT a believer in absolute rule by women, or that EITHER gender is "superior". I've been around the scene too long to believe such nonsense, & I freely acknowledge that dominance & submission are personal traits in people, regardless of gender. So if you're looking for advice or info on a "FemDom ruled world", please ask others that share that same belief. I'm NOT putting down those that believe in that fantasy, it's just not what I or my Wife are into. We are too busy with the reality of a D/s based marriage to spend time on imaginary musings.
We are very D/s oriented, with a strong Domestic Discipline, (DD), streak, along with being into S/M as well. My Wife is the Head of the Household, Her word is law, & She always has the final decision regarding how things are done. I do have a voice, & an opinion, & have rights, as we both acknowledge I am a sub, not a slave.
I am especially adept at blending BDSM into a marriage/relationship & will always be willing to help others there, no matter what level they wish to achieve.
If I can be of help with anything, please don't hesitate to ask here, or to PM me!
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