Why did you join this Forum?

[d_domus]

And what keeps you coming back?

These are two questions that I would like a response to. As I am going thru member profiles to check on birthdates I am noticing a lot of what I call one day wonders---people who join for one day and never return. So I am on a quest to find out why some members do this while other do not.

Maybe thru member input we can make this a more friendly place to new members.


Thanks

Hi Rabbit,

Why, because I am a BDSM fan and your histories are good.
What can keep me coming, a lot of friendly people in the chats and eventually someone special to intimate.

[Juan Baca]

I'm obviously too late technically to be a one-day wonder, but I don't really expect to be making any posts here other than this one, nor will I probably be visiting here particularly regularly, so I figured I'd write this. I joined because I'm into stories featuring sexual violence, rape, and sex slavery, and, while I'm not at all interested in BDSM, it just so happened that bdsmlibrary has a great deal of stories which match my tastes. So when I began to wonder about what these tastes may imply about me as an individual, I first checked out the literotica forums for discussions along the lines of what I was thinking about, and upon finding them too prudish, I came here, since it was stories found here which got me thinking in the first place. I was however turned off upon finding that the forum has less to do with the content of bdsmlibrary than I expected and more to do with the BDSM community. Given that the community is into the whole "SSC" thing, whereas I like stories which almost exclusively fall into the realm of unsafe/insane/nonconsensual and are only marginally related to BDSM, I concluded that this place probably isn't the best fit for me after all.

[d_domus]

I also find a kind of mismatch between the stories and the forums, chat,..., culture of the site.