As the Dom in this situation I want to thank those in chat last night for bringing some light and great ideas to this issue. Also thanks to OZ for his suggestions of punishment (I am letting her stew on this for a day before formally brining the discipline to bear…Yes Oz photos will accompany).

Not sure what the "other thread" being talked about is all about and frankly don't care (please no offense!) I'm just happy to report that my sud was on-time for lunch today Eureka! I refused to see her last night at all, we did IM and I explained exactly what I expected of her in regard to time management and exactly what the consequences would be for violation. Clearly she hates to be ignored, so far so good.

Again thanks for the advice…happy holidays!