i joined this website because in the back of my mind i've always had fantasies about being tied up, forced and/or hurt before and after sex. i've always thought there is something wrong with me. i have read some of the stories here and man do they turn me on. i would love to talk to someone more about BDSM but i really dont know how to . would appreciate any help in this area as i have very little experience. forgive me , but i hardly even know how to use a computer, thank god . i was at least able to find yall.