I skimmed through Elise Sutton's site and it looks very good!. I think I'll spend the next few days there, and sort out my feelings

I also found an excellent thread in the BSDM Academy: :Telling your significant other about your secret life

That thread also makes me realize that it's going to be difficult to tell my wife. I feel guilty about hiding it from her and a bit ashamed for not being able to tell her because I know how she'll react.

In the meanwhile, I'm going to continue to find ways to please. She's my secret mistress. And I believe that bit by bit she'll accept me for what I am.

G