Consistancy

[pleasehim]

Can anyone help me understand why my master directs me in things around the house but not in bed? I am frustated with my master and feel guilty for my anger towards him. I have repeatedly tried to discuss this with him but he get's annoyed and then ignores me. I wish he would just hit me instead.
An example; he tells me what kind and colour of garbage can to buy, but won't order me around enough in bed. He is very active with me sexually but I need much more domination to feel fulfilled. I'm sorry if this sounds whiney but can anyone give me some advice?

[Tojo]

Can anyone help me understand why my master directs me in things around the house but not in bed? I am frustated with my master and feel guilty for my anger towards him. I have repeatedly tried to discuss this with him but he get's annoyed and then ignores me. I wish he would just hit me instead.
An example; he tells me what kind and colour of garbage can to buy, but won't order me around enough in bed. He is very active with me sexually but I need much more domination to feel fulfilled. I'm sorry if this sounds whiney but can anyone give me some advice?

Not sure I understand what you mean by "I wish he would just hit me instead. "
That doesn't sound like a D/s relationship, more an abusive one.
You'll never know what your Master is thinking unless you can communicate in some way. To me a D/s relationship has to be a two way thing. He cannot anticipate your every need without knowing it.
I don't know your circumstances, but at a guess I'd say it would be a good idea to learn a little more about D/s relationships, what a Master actually is, & how people make it work. Your question can't be answered without a lot more info. I'd suggest trying http://www.submissiveloving.com/ as a start.
It's a worry that you try to discuss it & he ignores you- an obvious communication breakdown which you BOTH need to overcome if you're serious about this.
Oh & it's 'Master,' never 'master.'

Tojo