Quote Originally Posted by Tojo
Do you spend time just getting to know your sub? We don't 'play' all the time, but chat for a while, then switch to playing.
I want very much to get to know her, to help her grow & be there for her if she has problems. I've just started doing a bit of life story stuff.
I think it has to be more than just a D/s relationship, she's a friend as well.

Tojo
LOL Yeah I've spent time getting to know her. She's my wife.