Quite a few male subs have mentioned similar - wanting to be forced to receive cock. I suppose there's the humiliation factor and that filling your subs mouth with juicy cock lets them know who's boss.. That's why I have a strap-on. Women can be just as dominant as men, it's a question of the person, not their gender.. but much can be said for having a nice hard thing to thrust in places..
So it's a matter of control? My sub has some gay tendencies, but yes - they mostly involve being forced, used.. and made to swallow lots of course.
And to get back to the original starting topic, Kat is right, do what you like, experiment around maybe, you don't need a label.. but unrestricted pleasure sounds a good one! (I feel the same actually)