So, when thinking about these rules for her, realize she's not a lifestyle sub, but I like to include the rules in r/l for two reasons: 1) it makes her think about me 2) when I mention that she broke a rule and there's someone around, the look at us funny.
I appreciate any new input on this.
And...what kind of input do you want? Is it ok? You have to ask her if she is willing to do it. If not, giving her a task that lasts about 3 days over the week will have her think about you more...

When she breaks a rule or doesn't do the task, such as write when she starts the task, describe what she did, how it made her feel, etc. That is how you know she's complying...no report...then there are consequences.

Too many standing rules/task make it stressful and resentment takes the place of thinking of you. Give her something she can live with but make her accountable to perform them. DOM her when she needs it...right?