Quote Originally Posted by Primus_Pilus
Well, you sound definately creative. I know that masturbating in public is already difficult (what if someone should hear?!) for a guy, but for a woman... that must be intense. Although, my subbie doesn't seem to be very in to her own personal fluids... everytime I spend any time licking her, and come up, she avoids kissing or any of the sort for a good while. Though, I think that might just be an embarassment issue. I would be embarassed about it, but if I were told to do it for a Mistress, I would do it. Is there a choice?
Yes, there is a choice, but, if it is the wrong choice, there is no playing. That is your card.

As for the rest of those tasks. They are great and I'll use them, but she's gonna need some time to get used to all of this. Maybe I'll have her do it in the living room while I watch? The real key is feeling out how much she's in to humiliation. I mean, how can one tell? I'll query her about it.
Humilitation test.

The first time, tell her to keep the door open when she pees. Stand near so she sees you watching her. She should feel like a hand is clutching her gut. Ask her to tell you how it feels while you gauge her appearance; is she flushed, goosebumps on her skin?

I gave her directions the other day to shave her pussy bald, but I hadn't thought of having her email me first... so I told her this morning to write me and she was all confused about it. I'll have to elaborate for her, but it took me most of the day to think about what I wanted her to write.
Just ask her to write when she started the task, what she felt like when she was shaving, did she play with herself, all those things. She will figure out how to write a report in her own way once she understands what you want to read.

Although writing can be the hardest part of the task, it is also the most satisfying part.

I set the bar very high when I wrote my first report and now realize it doesn't have to be an essay. I will post my first task and report. It is not a starting point, but it is the report of a complete newbie.

Why do I write the reports? That was a sticking point with me. But after several months, it hit me. He is re-living the task with me because he cannot be there. So when I write, I know that he will enjoy it, drink it in, and wank to it. And I didn't know how much of an effort the Dom puts in until the tables were turned and I experienced switching. Now THAT'S a mind fuck.

Nikita, mademoiselle, Je suis remercie pour ton aide! you are great, and I look forward to seeing more of your sadistic ideas If you'ld like, I can keep you posted... but I'm sure you're busy. It's always nice to have someone to share ideas with.
C'était mon plaisir. I'd like that. This is your thread on Princess and I will look forward to any journal entries you make regarding her progress.