Quote Originally Posted by good_girl View Post
Voodoo_Child...ouch

Ozme and J-Go....my fear is that he will run screaming, I would have a couple years ago...and I am not willing to sacrafice anything...but, if slowly introduced could he be interested deep down? that is the question. Being quite new to this myself, I'm open to suggestions on how to do just that.

Part of the problem is that we work together (not directly), we have yet to see each other outside of work, I'm hoping that oppertunity presents itself very soon
It hardly matters until you find out if he feels the same way about you. You may not get beyond dinner... but if you do... then you just have to be submissive to him and see how he reacts. Ask him to choose the restaurant. Maybe even let him order for you. When he asks what do you want to see at a movie, ask him to choose.

When you get to the bedroom call him sir, use the word 'naughty', have scarves draped on the headboard and footboard, keep your hairbrush on the nightstand, kneel, do whatever he asks... if he keeps asking and you keep doing, if he escalates you have a dom. If not, you don't. Hell, he may throw himself onto the bed and tell you to have your way with him... and then you'll know that too.

Good luck.