Thanks Rabbit- another reason I spend a bit of time on kinky forums, is that no matter how inexperienced you might be, there's always someone who knows less.

I may not have a dungeon full of slaves, but I have some experience of D/s play & I know a lot about human relationships.

I hate the thought of people who come on a site, go into 'contacts' & say 'I'm a gorgeous 19 year old female student, with no brain & no experience. I'm looking for some weirdo to come around & kidnap & abuse me.'

I like to try & encourage people to think for themselves, to urge a little restraint & play safe.

I'm also somewhat 'old' & have been around- I know something of the world & the people in it. If I can help one person to avoid making a mistake I've made, my work is done.

Tojo