Does a BDSM relationship make for a Good Marriage?

[Playfulsub]

1 and 2. Clove and I have been married for 12 years, together for 14. We've only been D/s for less than a year.

[Hime]

We have been married for six months and involved in D/s at one level or another for about a year. I think that BDSM has strengthened our relationship by encouraging us to communicate better about our desires and needs. We have recently incorporated another person into our life (see my "two bosses" thread!), and that has required a level of communication that we probably wouldn't have been capable of without our background in BDSM negotiation.