The one time this was done to me, I actually cried. He'd been playing with my clit with a vibrator for twenty minutes, and he shut it off. He's the only man that has ever been able to make me cum, and it wasn't until a few weeks ago that I was able to do it for myself. So for me, that was just cruel, and neither one of us enjoyed it. I do like it, though, when he makes me wait a few seconds longer than necessary, or whatnot, but building me up and just letting it fall apart is not something I can handle.

As for being told not to masturbate or something while we're apart... that's no problem for me. I went without for twenty one years, so a week or so isn't difficult at all.