Quote Originally Posted by Ozme52 View Post
So you learned something... but you are still swinging on that emotional pendulum. Do you really think if you let it simmer a while you won't want to chuck it all... and may still meet someone who will complement your needs.

I hope you stick around.
Oz I apologize, I meant the site where I placed my ad, not here.

I haven’t placed an ad here because just about everyone is so far away or taken

Quote Originally Posted by suchaminx View Post
My heart goes out to you hun, but I was pleased to see that you are staying. It is a times like these having people who have experienced what you are going through right now really helps.

So stay, vent, chat, cry, laugh - whatever you feel like and know that we will share it with you

love and hugs minxy xx
Bah, you will regret this as I start telling lame jokes minxy

Thanks and hugs

Quote Originally Posted by Logic1 View Post
Yes that word is probably one of the most hurtful words out there.. disappointment...
Really hope you get back up on your feet quickly. You sure seem like a special gal

Not everyone is into real pain and especially not quickly. I am moving really slowly with my gal and seems to be working just fine. Slow introductions into the bdsm lifestyle is important if you dont know how he/she might react to all the things that is.

Wish you the best.
stick around here and take care
That’s what I was asking myself…if he had of gone slower would it have made a difference? (I think it would have) But I have no experienced answer to this and I wonder if this serious stuff shouldn’t be saved until you actually meet, not via email instructions, or perhaps if the instructions were more explicit, safe time period to do this, what to watch for etcetera.

Hugs Logic1 and thank you

Quote Originally Posted by tessa View Post
Hugs. Just hugs.
Hmm with you all bound like that, just what kind of hugs are you giving tessa?
Quote Originally Posted by Polaris View Post
Well, you know -- if I were a dom, I'd be pretty damn proud of you. I'm sure it took a lot of courage to be honest about your feelings, and the fact that things were moving too fast and/or in a different direction for you.

I'm honestly sorry that things didn't work out for you (yet). I followed this thread with my fingers crossed, and now that it didn't work out properly I send you a big bunch of hugs. I know it's easier said than done, but don't let it bring you down -- I'm sure there is somebody out there who is just perfect for you, and who can value and appreciate the wonderful person you are.
It did, it was hard telling him this, I was hoping he would come back that we slow down
a bit and what…train me from the beginning where I told him I had never been clamped on my labia before, nor flicked, nor cropped (nothing)…they had never been tested at all and next thing I knew it was pencils, elastics and heavy pulleys on them and walking across the room 10 times. But this is past now.

Thank you Polaris and hugs back

Thanks everyone

echoes