We sat and talked for several minutes, just about things in general, our age, our occupation, things like that, finally I said "get up and go to the counter and ask the waitress for a glass of ice, take your purse with you, when no one is looking place the ice in your purse, then go into the bathroom and use the ice to rub your nipples until they are hard, dry your breasts off so that you won't leave a wet spot on your blouse, and then come back out here and sit down, I want to get a look at your hard nipples as they poked against your blouse."