well Master and I have been married for 16 years so we are mostly 24/7 as much as we can be with 5 teenagers here.
Sir and I are real life but because of our distance alot of our interaction is online and the phone but he does visit about once a month till next month when he moves here.
Cant really say if our relationship would have been happier had we been bdsm before we married because we just werent until a few years ago.It's something I have always wanted to explore but felt he would run from the house and never come back. I did eventually work up the nerve to discuss it with him and it has done nothing but enhance our relationship.
leigh