An embarassing question

[Aussiegirl1]

I agree, I am by no means into pain, but over the past year with WB my tolerance level is slowly rising. That does not mean I am any less of a wuss when it comes to pain, but that I seem to be able to take that little bit more now. I think I also know if I can take X amount of pain one day, and I survived it, I can take that bit more next time. It is very much a mental as well as a physical thing for me.

It is also that we know each other so much better now, and he can read me so well, even via a web cam. I know too, for me, his encouragement helps me so much to keep going, though I still don't make it easy for him. I am sure the faces that I pull and the moans and groans must make him wonder at times lol

As mentioned above, it has to be fun. I often say to WB, that even if I am pulling faces during an activity I find painfull, I am happy I have achieved it. I also think I will NEVER be able to tolerant pain like some subs can, and that is fine with me. That is what makes this journey we are all on so very interesting - that we are all different.

[Warbaby1943]

I agree, I am by no means into pain, but over the past year with WB my tolerance level is slowly rising. That does not mean I am any less of a wuss when it comes to pain, but that I seem to be able to take that little bit more now. I think I also know if I can take X amount of pain one day, and I survived it, I can take that bit more next time. It is very much a mental as well as a physical thing for me.

It is also that we know each other so much better now, and he can read me so well, even via a web cam. I know too, for me, his encouragement helps me so much to keep going, though I still don't make it easy for him. I am sure the faces that I pull and the moans and groans must make him wonder at times lol

As mentioned above, it has to be fun. I often say to WB, that even if I am pulling faces during an activity I find painfull, I am happy I have achieved it. I also think I will NEVER be able to tolerant pain like some subs can, and that is fine with me. That is what makes this journey we are all on so very interesting - that we are all different.

You do very well and better each day.

[Whippett]

I agree, I am by no means into pain, but over the past year with WB my tolerance level is slowly rising. That does not mean I am any less of a wuss when it comes to pain, but that I seem to be able to take that little bit more now. I think I also know if I can take X amount of pain one day, and I survived it, I can take that bit more next time. It is very much a mental as well as a physical thing for me.

As a friend always says - take the head and the body will follow. It is indeed a mind thing. I had a girl once who had an incredible tolerance to pain. Solid stroke just made her wet. But if she accidentally stubbed her toe, she'd be in pain from the tears (and you can only guess at the agony she went through when she had her appendix removed). As ID said, it's all in the manner in which the pain is administered - and the amount of pleasure that is induced at the same time - and that cross-over, from pain to pleasure is very much mental/emotional in nature.