Sorry when I use pain it is normally to accent the pleasure and take her to another level.

When I use pain for pain sake it is to let her show me how much I mean to her. That may sound strange but there are lot of Doms out and subs that will know just what I mean.

I do not play with torture it is all ways done for reasons. I also do not use pain as punishment except on very rare occasions that I do it is in public and to humiliate her and either thrill her or teach her an unforgetable lesson