I joined because I have been frustrated in my search for kindred souls. Being Dom by nature is a tough road to follow. People without knowledge perceive Dom's as being power and control freaks. It is not like that at all. It is like walking on thin ice though. You need to lead by example and gain the respect of those who would want to know you gradually. It is also hard to filter out the weak of mind and spirit. There is nothing so disappointing as spending hours and hours getting to know someone only to find out they are a not truly who they pretend to be.

* This only applies if your fantasy meets reality