I have to agree with what someone previously stated...for me personally it is the ultimate gift. A way in which I can show my love for Him, knowing He loves me back and allowing Him to literally take my life into his hands. To give someone that much control that at times they own my very soul.....it can only be love for me. Devotion,commitment and submitting to Him are done because I love Him, they are the gifts that I give Him that no one else can and by giving these things to Him I in return am able to see His happiness and total love and devotion to me.I know its corny, but I would never submit myself to someone I didnt love, I couldnt.