Adding my 2 cents just cause it has been so long since I have posted I need to get out some of these pent up posts. Face slapping started as a huge nono for us. I couldnt stand having anyone touch my face let alone slap it. Then I for whatever reason(ok sometimes I may be a bit bratty) taunted him one night and he swatted my cheek. It was quite a hard swat and I started to cry. I think he truly liked the fact that I was crying, I think it turned him on.I was a bit shocked at first, but then felt like I wanted it. I couldnt figure out why since the only other times in my life I was slapped in the face were not pleasant to say the least (jerk of a boyfriend).Now I love it when it happens and enjoy being slapped in the face with his hand (along with other parts of his body...ahem!) Sorry, anyway I think that it is somethin only you know if you can tolerate it or not and if you can great and if not then dont let it happen. I wouldnt read too much into it just let it be what it is and enjoy.