I have only done one contract in 35 years, when she asked for it I told her that they weren't really necessary if she trusted me.

She said please I need to feel secure in this. She is new to the life but instead of steamrolling her out of the contract I decided the correct Daddy Dom thing would be to let her have it, humor her.

It turns out that after 2 weeks of intense negotiation I learned a tremendous amount about this lovely creature and she about me.

I recommend contracts that are very detailed in order to really know your partner. Surprisingly to me without the work of the contracting I would not have found myself so in love with her. That love and knowledge has help us through several very difficult times that should have broken up the normal couple relationship. Now we are growing together and growing stronger, not because of the contract but because of the knowledge of each other we gained by doing it in great depth.