Orgasm on Demand

[Nikita]

Please excuse my curiousity, but I've gotta know. Is it really possible for a submissive to be "trained" to the point that he/she will come upon demand. I understand how one could be trained not to come until given permission, but can the mind really reach the point that mere permission, without physical stimulation, will cause an orgasm? As you can probably tell, I lead a vanilla lifestyle, but I'm really intrigued by the dom/sub relationship.

Sassy

This is a toughie and I can only speak for myself.

I'm a firm believer that sex occurs first in the mind, mental foreplay, all day long, all week long, or maybe an hour before play, but first in the mind.

If you can get wet or hard during this period of foreplay, being given the permission to cum is just a trigger response and physical stimulation is an afterthought.

The cum (for me) is not as intense as it is with physical stimulation, but the high before, during, and after, is so *looks dreamy intense, it is worth trying to get there. And that is the hook.

[Tojo]

Well I'll excuse your curiosity fantassy, that's what the place is for, unless I'm much mistaken.

My theory is that no one could have an orgasm unless they were turned on enough to do so.
Just a theory mind you, but one of my favourite pastimes is teasing & teasing my susy, then (sometimes) giving her permission to go all the way.

I just can't see how it would be possible until the window of opportunity was open, so to speak, as in being turned on enough.

Tojo

[Brosco]

I think I know you from another forum good to see you

Sorry that I need to disagree with you, but cum-on-demand does not necessarily need any physical stimulation previously. In a D/s relationship, my sub was 'trying it on' with bratty behaviour. Of course, I had a number of options, but i used the "Cum for me immediately" and not only did she do so, but it was a wonderful tool to remind her who was in control of her mind and body.

[Tojo]

I think I know you from another forum good to see you

Sorry that I need to disagree with you, but cum-on-demand does not necessarily need any physical stimulation previously. In a D/s relationship, my sub was 'trying it on' with bratty behaviour. Of course, I had a number of options, but i used the "Cum for me immediately" and not only did she do so, but it was a wonderful tool to remind her who was in control of her mind and body.

Feel free to disagree Brosco, whatever I say is only my opinion- I haunt these forums for material, & to sometimes try & give some back.

Life is a constant learning process.

(Hey I hope I was well-behaved in that other forum?)

Back to topic- when I said I believe someone has to be 'turned on' I don't mean just physically- I still believe someone would have to be in some sort of appropriate mindset. I certainly believe it's possible to be turned on by a word or even a look, instantly. I'd take some convincing that anyone can instantly orgasm when they're completely 'out of the loop' as it were.
I need proof guys!

Tojo