Originally posted by BDSM_Tourguide
My slut and I are also married and just had our first daughter. She's almost four months now.

How do you manage to work your M/s relationship and have kids at the same time? That's the challenge we've been having.
I know this question wasn't directed at me, but since I have been there, I thought I might give you a few hints. Woodsman and I looked for every opportunity we could get when our kids were young, anytime of the day or night. Sessions at 11 in the morning or 4 in the afternoon were not uncommon. I learned to make no noise, even without a gag. We never used one. Our parents would watch the kids so we could have weekend get-aways. And then there were always the woods. But as far as having a 24/7 lifestyle with children, I don't see how that is possible unless you are willing to have your children know about your lifestyle. And believe me, they will know. My daughters have told me, now that they are grown, about things that they were aware of that my husband and I thought were well kept secrets.
They don't know the details, but they know. They are comfortable talking about anything with me that is how I found out. Thank goodness they are open-minded and non judgmental about it, and it hasn’t hurt our relationship.