Funny how difficult a label can be. I guess I qualify as a Switch. While I have generally played the dominate role with past boyfriends, every once in a while I like to be lazy and let someone else make the decisions.

I'm in my 40's, and have been around the fringes of BDSM most of my adult life. Still a novice, if not a newbie, though. Enjoy the culture, reading and writing BDSM fantasies, and playing with the occasional guy or gal if the chemistry is right.

Lady C