... I's rather be in a relationship withi someone that cared for me and was sensitive to my needs as well as his or her ownrather than someone that really didn't give a shit about me or how I felt and who put his or her needs above mine. But that's just me.

And you're right, you're likely not going to find that "perfect thing" your first time out, but he's a big boy and, if you feel you must end the relationship, then I'm sure he can handle it, and probably has before.

By the same flip of the coin, you're a big girl and if he decided he needed to move on to another relationship, I'm sure you could handle it, too.

It sounded like a great date to me. I'd like him, if it was me.