Thanks Oz- a couple of my other hangouts seem to be fizzling out, so I'll see how this place is going.

Glad to hear you guys are getting somewhere new1, let us know how it goes.

One thing I don't think I mentioned is that it's easy to forget that a D/s relationship is no different to any other- in the context that it's what two people have to work out between themselves to their mutual satisfaction.

Oh & yes I do believe online can be cheating- it depends on what sort of relationship you have, & as Radiance says:

If your partner knows what your going online its not cheating if your hiding the online cyber its cheating,that simple grins