Hello,
I find myself going on a trip through the internet looking for somewhere to explore and learn though I have about 6 months of experience it wasn't all that much of an experience. The girl I was with at the time was submissive and so was I. After taking on the position as the dominant I finally convinced her to be dominant but she really wasn't it was more of her being slightly more agressive and me pretending I was the bottom. I was told once that it was called topping from the bottom or something of that sort, any who I have since been looking for someone I can gain a more defined understanding of what it is in D/s I actually like doing and what is just a nice fantasy. Though I seem to be going no where fast.