Originally posted by Kostly
I always thought that a Slave wants a person to micromanage her/his life while a submissive is a person who doesnt like that level of control.
While I can see how one might get that idea from the, erm, high maintenance crowd, it's a pretty bogus idea for delineating.

Slave isn't a label you can really give yourself. You're not one till someone else has pinned it on you. The last thing it ends up having to do with is what *you* want.