delish,

I am not much of a sadist but even with me things go wrong, I have learned to plan for things going wrong. I have quick release clips I use with chains and a set of bolt cutters near by, a razor knife in case I am using rope.

That has saved the lady I was with from real unexpected pain and worse on more then one occasion. I plan for things to go wrong and that is all I am advising you and all others to do.

A trip to the ER is no fun and they will report to the authorities what they consider suspicious things.

I certainly wasn't trying to insult you just preach a lesson that I think is very important even if you have 20 years in the life.