ok i serpose i should have gone a little bit slower on here for people, lol. When i said turniing a vanilla i know that most peoples point of view on here is that you are one or the other, but not all people are born knowing they are a dom or sub and what it all means iam prity sure all of us are like that at one stage in are life. In the age before the net you would not be able to find anything out unless you found someone older with experance ready to teach you, and how would you find that out we all dont go around with a huge sign or tatto on are face that says dom sub.

most people have some sort of bdsm fantasys they just think they are freaks for having it and never tell anyone

what follows is some storys of women i have met