Quote Originally Posted by slb_b2000
Helllllppp everyone? I am a newbie to the lifestyle and trying to understand this wonderful Man I met online, and we are 900 miles apart although it doesn't feel like it when we are on the phone. Anyway, I am trying to get over the jealousy I feel when he talks about his past experiences with women. He feels like I am judging him and is upset and I being new am trying to not make him feel that way? Help me, I am sick to my stomach that he is so hurt, and how can I make him understand?

Easy girl- this stuff is meant to be fun! Just slow down & get to know him a bit, before jumping right in.

If he doesn't like you being jealous, maybe he shouldn't talk about other women??

If you want to know things, you'll have to give us a bit more information & ask specific questions. All relationships are different, regardless of what the so-called experts may say. You just have to find what works for you- that's something you have to work out with your new chap!

All said & done, it's not worth getting sick over.

Tojo