I was thankful for your response Pro Dom. A young lady admitted to me of her love for suspension. She liked to be suspended with her arms spreadeagled. This image did not excite me, since there are 100's of such images on the net; but when she explained how the burning feeling in her armpits ignited sexual thrills for her and she added the fantasy that she would helplessly have to endure a long period of time like this, my imagination also took over and something in my brain added real excitement to my sexual life. I enjoyed her explaining her fetish specifically. She and I both felt good about it for a long time.

One more thing, I am so new at BDSM, how could a dom or mistress enhance my needs fulfillment? Just wondered.
Thanks