Submissive/Slave Please introduce yourselves here

[redsonjaseattle]

Thank you, everyone. Master wrote me a very complimentary email this morning and agreed that I need to find someone who can appreciate me as I deserve. He also said that I have outgrown him.

I wish it didn't take a melt-down on my part to generate a response from him, it certainly is not a healthy way to communicate.

Intellectually I know moving on is the right thing to do, so I am. It still hurts, Im sad, but I hold no bitterness towards my old Master. He helped me discover that I am, indeed, a submissive...so my journey is just beginning.

--Red

[submissivewife]

Sorry to hear that things ended between you and your Master. I too, recently lost a Master. It hurts and getting past that is difficult. Stay strong, you are aways stronger than what you think.

[Ozme52]

Thank you, everyone. Master wrote me a very complimentary email this morning and agreed that I need to find someone who can appreciate me as I deserve. He also said that I have outgrown him.

I wish it didn't take a melt-down on my part to generate a response from him, it certainly is not a healthy way to communicate.

Intellectually I know moving on is the right thing to do, so I am. It still hurts, Im sad, but I hold no bitterness towards my old Master. He helped me discover that I am, indeed, a submissive...so my journey is just beginning.

--Red

Maybe you'll find who and what you are looking for here Red. It's a nice community of people.

[dog_slave]

Im a submissive with around 6 months experience. Im looking forward to getting involved here.

[star_catcher77]

I'm a male sub with about 3 years of online experience...regretfully, i've never been able to get involved in r/t relationship; i just never found anyone suitable. too many guys masquerading as women, heh. Though at the moment i'm pretty pre-occupied with school stuff, i look forward to someday being involved in a 24/7 relationship, or at least enjoying this lifestyle with my lover.

[submissivewife]

dog_slave and star_catcher77 thank you for introducing yourselves. Hope you enjoy yourself here.

[jennjenn]

hi my name is jenn and im an alcoholic .... wait wrong room....okay i am submissive; however, it has been in the last year that i have accepted this about myself. i always thought that bdsm was NOT for me because i am afraid of whips but have since done a lot of research about the different forms of bdsm =) i love to learn and believe that everyone we meet has something to teach us ... so im excited to learn and teach what i can ... thank you all

[greeneyes]

i'm new to this. i'm in my 30's but consoder myself a virgin in all this. my rl cherry has never been popped in the sun/ dom world.as a good catholic girl i dreamed of punishment for my sins- to be locked away & made to pay for the burning i felt. my real life is quite in the mainstream. i've recently begun to allow myself to feel the pull that i have always had toward the sub life. i'm looking for a strong male sub to explode my fantasies. i still don't know what my boundaries are.

[SheepishJaina]

I suppose I should post. It's certainly been enough time.

I've been lurking around for quite a while *glances at join date*. My Partner and I have been exploring the aspects of BDSM for quite a while. We find it hard to do all of the things we want to do, due to current living situations, and a lack of total privacy. For now we have to be content with keeping most of our activities to the bedroom. We're a newly married couple, and love being able to talk to other folks who share our intrests. It's nice to know that we're not the oddballs the rest of the world might think we are. (Ok, we're odd, in MANY ways, but its all in good fun.)

[jeffy]

hey have u please me yet jffvnny@yahoo.ca

[jeffy]

hey have u please me yet jffvnny@yahoo.ca southrn ontario

[lalia]

having caught a fascianation to rubber before age 5, taking up scuba before age 13 , becoming mesmerized by the females who looked AFTER me then too,it was fate.if you read" cardinal of the kremlin" , also like sailing, and hiking and ayhuasca,kooking and living languid taking it in and slowly expanding awareness.

[Aesop]

Welcome lalia.

[Silke]

Hiya lalia and to the forums! Enjoy!

[submissivewife]

lalia hope you enjoy. Thanks for introducing yourself.

[maddie]

I'm Maddie, and I've been experimenting with being a sub for a few years. I'm here for two reasons: 1) I'm looking for ideas about how to get my husband more interested in this and give him ideas of what he can do to me, and 2) to help me feel like I'm not some weird, twisted looney tune, just because I like to be tied up and told what to do on occasion.

Being here for the past few days has already helped. I've been able to bring up a couple of things with my husband that I hadn't thought about or really had the nerve to talk about, which has helped.

[Jim]

here is a silly question for you .. i would like my wife to get her nipples pierced ..
but she is reluctant to do so .. she is a very good sub in many ways .. and i would rather enjoy seeing her enhance her breasts with the piercing ..
do you have any thoughts of why she would be reluctant to do so ..
thanks ..

[maddie]

Because it hurts?

I don't mean to sound flippant, but I remember how it hurt when I got my ears pierced. I can't imagine doing that to a part of my body that's more sensitive.

Some people like pain, others don't.

[Qmoq]

Maddie, good luck with it!

I don't know how you could introduce it - perhaps if you see a film where the heroine is tied up, you could give him a hard rub on the inner thigh?

If he's smart, he'd realise what was making you hot (even if it's only pretend), and if you're lucky, he'll be off buying ropes that very day.

Q x

[maddie]

We're going away for the weekend and I'm taking my computer, which has a DVD player and "Secretary". He's smart. He'll get the idea.

It's not so much that he's not interested in this. It's just that I'd like him to be more interested. I'm trying to take it slowly so he doesn't get frustrated.

[pinkpetals23]

Hi, my name is pinkpetals23. I am a 23 year old new sub. I have been actively involved in the lifestyle for about 6 months. I have had one r/l dom whom I cared for very much. I don't know that much, I'll probably be asking more questions than answering, but if anyone does have a question I will try my best to answer it.

[Silke]

Hiya pinkpetals23...thanks for your intro and to the forums! Questions...answers...just jump right into the fun & enjoy!

[Alex Bragi]

.. i would like my wife to get her nipples pierced ..
but she is reluctant to do so ...

... do you have any thoughts of why she would be reluctant to do so ..
thanks ..

Jim, a male friend of mine has his left nipple pierced. The reason both aren't done is that, in his own words, "It hurt so fucking much I decided one was enough." I agree with Maddie—pain isn't for everyone. Have you considered those fake ones?

[submissivewife]

Welcome pinkpetals 23 hope you enjoy...ask any questions you want..

[His_pita]

Because it hurts?

Good answer!!! Hell, I'm a big baby when he brings a clamp near my nipples, let alone a needle. Just not that good of a girl!!

[BBW Submissive]

Hi I am a 35 year old BBW submissive looking for a master to serve. He must be close to me though. I live in Toronto, Ontario Canada. I am not looking for an online or telephone dom I want to meet him in person and have a possible relationship.

[Silke]

Hiya BBW Submissive...you might want to put this up as a Personal since you're looking for a Master. Just let me know if you want me to move your post and I'll be glad to help out - either send me a private message or email on SilkeMod@gmail.com

Silke

[submissivewife]

Actually Silke she has one already there.

Good luck in your search for a Master BBW Submissive. I feel for your plight and hope everything works out for you. Welcome to the forums I hope you continue to enjoy.

subwife

[Silke]

Actually Silke she has one already there.

Darn...really wanted to put all that practice into something useful...use those new gadgets! lol

Ah well...guess you're way ahead of me, BBW Submissive.

[CuriosityKills]

heya...Never been in a D/s relationship but have always found the subject interesting. I'd deffinatley be a sumbissive and me an my boyfriend are currently discussing our relationship as to where we stand with bdsm {its obvious that he dominate our relationship as it is).
so Hi from me.
xx