I'm paola..which means small/humble. I am a strong willful woman in r/l but I have always had a submissive side of me that has never been explored. I am learning a lot in just the few short days I have been here. I am married to a wonderful man but he is not into this type of lifestyle or play although I am hoping that after seeing this site he may be willing to try. He has allowed me to me talk on line with one particular Dom that we met through another site so I guess that is some progress. Feel free to pm me if you'd like.