toy chest

[Sir_Russell]

Toys normally are broken down to insertable and not. Any toy that I buy or make that goes into her body is hers and no one else's. I tend to make cuffs for each submissive that agrees to serve me long term and they are her's because it is my custom to give them to her. Chains, rope, are mine. I love a couple of types of vibrators so the moment they enter her they become hers even if I keep them with me they will not be used on another.

So the answer to your question is really it depends on the pairing but never allow an insertable toy to be used on you if it has ever been used on another. Normally when I buy a new insertable toy I show her that is just now coming out of the packing.

[icey]

we've built up quite a large collection of toys over the years mostly bought by him but they're ours and we've always said that neither of us would use them with anyone else anyway, they would be thrown away.
But my collar is his property and he would never throw that he would either keep it himself or allow me to keep it as a special memento.

i know some subs prefer to collect and use their own for financial,safety and hygiene reasons if they dont plan on having long term r/ships which i think is a good idea.

feelings on being Dominated? well tbh i dont really romanticise it or sit and think about it as such,its our r/ship and just happens naturally...of course there are the odd moments where i rant and rave (ooops subs rnt supposed to admit to that lol) and rebel and it drives me nuts when im thinking grrr do i HAVE to do that i HATE lol after all i am human!! but it quickly passes and everythings back on track.