Welcome fiftythousand_x, thanks for saying hi & telling us about yourself.

Yes if you want to know stuff from personal experience, I'd suggest to just PM someone who looks likely- many of us make it clear we're happy to answer questions & hear thoughts. Myself included- I seem to be a bit of a 'sub supporter' a lot of the time.

I used to like being Dommed & tied up, about a hundred years ago- & now am obsessed with doing it to others, online or in person.

It's been nearly 25 years since I was hogtied by a lovely lady, but I can still remember how good it felt. A very enlightening experience indeed.

Learn & enjoy- but there ain't no substitute for actually doing it!

Tojo