Actully quoting Schoppenhouer wouldn't be well received on any other site. His philosphy is really gender insulting.

Yes, our subconscious does get in the way often, BUT, in my opinion clarity between the two individuals is important. Yes, we have acted irrationally and tried to justify ourselves. Really, it is futile. Are we fully aware of our actions all the time,NO, we aren't, but once we have them pointed out one must communicate what, why, how etc.

Does this give us reason to blame miscommuncation on our gender...NO. In my opinion it is the very reason we have to be more communicative.