Quote Originally Posted by bunkerchief
There is an element of the difference between fantasy and desire which I think is crucial to the whole debate. How real is real and how real is fantasy. The two obvioiusly merge at a point and it as which point that is the debate. Is it a perceived difference or an actual difference. My view is it is more to an actual difference but I accept that can be an endless debate.
Yes it can be endless, but since I don't see my activities as a lesser version of my fantasies the debate ends here for me. At this point we would just be going 'round on semantics I think.