First off, I guess I forgot to add its a no-sex position and occurs in a safe and supportive environment...

Ozme52: Pro-bottom is the best description for sure. We used to have a running joke that we weren't selling submission but co-operation. Certainly I submitted to a favourite client or two but the vast majority of the time I got to be an actress playing a scene (that just happened to usually get me spanked )

Louise: I didn't get to choose my customers but a lot of them were regulars for many years with the dungeon. When I was working there were a few I didn't like but they were few and far between. I think there are empowering ways of going about it, with all the precautions that you outlined, but maybe the negative is more frequent.

Thanks for sharing E/everyone, Y/you've really helped me re-evaluate my perspective!