That's a pretty broad question, but the simple answer is no. If I stub my toe, I'm pissed. If someone other than my Master were to ever hurt me, again, pissed. In the realm of BDSM, however, I lean pretty heavily towards being a painslut. If there is just a touch of underlying sexual pleasure, the pain does nothing but enhance that. Knowing I can endure it is also a source of pride and thus pleasure.
Two favorites: nipple clamps and/or the crop/cane.
Kinda' fond of having my nipples payed attention to.
Eh, a little tweak here and there but for the most part no. Part of the pleasure in the pain for me is letting go and the trust to allow another person to do those things to me. Focusing on administering pain to myself takes me out of that head space.
Yes, and it can be quite enjoyable but I do prefer the intensity of a the pain, whether it be a little or a lot.
If it's in the right spot, sure.
Aww c'mon, share with the group!![]()