If I were you I'd summon the power of interpretation. Too bad Rhabbi isn't here still, (I never thought I'd day that again). He had a bunch of links to BDSM for Christian sites who've taken lots of Bible quotes and with some creative interpretation figured out that this is what God wants. Nobody can prove they're wrong. At least not more wrong than any other interpretation.
And don't forget that God loves you no matter how much you fuck up. So you don't really need to worry, or care.