truly it is all in the learning and the first thing you learn is that breath play with hands should never be on her windpipe but at the sides of her neck you squeeze - i have an article on it at home that i will share (i forgot it today, my apologies) - it highlights the safety measures and correct techniques to use *smiles*

*smiles to badlyguidedlittlemis * did you know most women naturally hold their breath when they orgasm, vanilla or otherwise *winks* hehe

gem,
xo