brandy,

regardless of the general nature of culture, i wouldn't think you should put a tag on him based on heresay of others - all cultures have their bad apples, yes but you should trust your own instincts on what you feel from Him based on extensive communication between the two of you

all people are uniquely individual and i think should be looked upon as such, not judged and tagged based on background, religion, race, etc.

only you know what's right for you *smiles*

gem,
xo