I may be WAY off base, but issue I have is that with Society the Way it is today, it appears to me, that when peole say "Chrisitan" they are reffering to God Fearing Bible Thumping Individuals or Groups
I seem no reason why a Person can not be into BDSM and be Chrisitian, Any more the being into BDSM and Being Jewish, Or Hindu ect
I believe Society has made people feel and believe that if you are Chrisitan, you only believe in Family Values, No Gay Marriage ect ect, People need to follow thier own persona convictions in theire lives and if they are Comfortable with their BDSM lifesyle so be it, I do not believe Churches, Synogouges ect have the right to interfere with a person's persona life and beliefs outside the Church or Temple
If they do, then it may be that they are letting their indivdual religious believes control their daily life style, i know a number of Roamn Cathlics, that go regularly to Church, teach the various aspects of the Bible, but they also believe that Abortion is a perosnal sisue betwene Husband, Wife and Docotor, and that if 2 peple sincernely love each other they should be allowed to Marry be it same sex or not, but they also believe in the Church, this may sound hypocritical, but some religions to me seem to want to contro lever aspect of their follwewrs life making them almost like puppets for lack of a better way to phrade it and no insult is intend by that, follow your heart and YOUR beliefes and also believe in the Higher Power you do, but try not to mix the 2 you can't