Now this is exactly the kind of dom, and I use the word loosely here, who just simply assumes too much.

He has assumed that just because you're a submissive you will submitt to what ever it is he wants. Now that's exactly like assuming that a heterosexual woman would want to have sex with him simply because he's a heterosexual man (or vice versa).

What many of these "doms" miss is that a D/s relationship is a relationship. Even if it's temporary, even if it happens only once, a relationship exists between the dominant and the submissive because both have made that choice. Believing that you can tell a submissive what to do before you have established some sort of relationship which gives you that authority is a bit like believing that any man can tell any woman to have sex with him, because, after all, men have sex with women don't they?

And, finally, run little cadence, run!